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Read: The vegetarian: a novel by Han Kang


The vegetarian: a novel by Han Kang, translated from Korean by Deborah Smith, is nothing like you might expect for a book with this title. While well written, it is also an oddly dark and horrifying novel.

In Korea, meat is a key component of practically every meal. Even during our travels in Seoul, for breakfast one of the many bon chon (side dishes) is a cold marinated shredded beef; delicious and served with not matter what you order. Due to this, it makes sense that becoming a vegetarian can be a big deal that would be difficult for a family to understand. This is the premise of the novel, which evokes the worst case imaginable and life spirals ever downward because of this one decision. Certainly intriguing but also scary in its plausibility.

Yeong-hye wakes up from a startling, overwhelming nightmare about raw meat that made her feel revolted by meat upon waking up. The vividness and pungent stench from her nightmare instantly converts her to a vegetarian. The novel opens with the husband finding her standing in the kitchen, throwing out all meat and fish in the middle of the night. Soon he realizes that it is not a faze and that his wife is serious about being a vegetarian and won’t allow any meat at home so he no longer gets it either. She even keeps her distance from him, bothered by the smell of his sweat; even that is too animalistic for her now. Annoyed with her, the husband drags her family into the issue, sure that they can convince her to eat meat again and that’s where everything goes wrong.

Kang builds a compelling story in which all characters believe that they are right and remain stuck in their opinions. Instead of helping Yeong-hue, her family only makes the situation and her stubbornness worse. Her downfall is exploited by her brother-in-law for his own pleasure after her husband leaves her and her sister is all that is left but even her patience wears out. No one wants to support Yeong-hye as she is but it also becomes more difficult as her beliefs become more eccentric and she recedes deeper into herself.

Originally written as three novellas, the novel on gains three parts: Yeong-hye, the brother-in-law, and finally the sister. The main story follows throughout but it gets more complicated with each additional part. As crazy as the plot gets, it’s eerily plausible which makes it even more upsetting and in its own way horrifying.

Recommended?: Certainly for adults only, as there is sexual and graphic content. There is lots of drama in the novel and the plot keeps intensifying, which is typical of Korea television shows so it wasn’t too surprising but it certainly makes the book quite a page turner, despite being frightening. For my first Korean novel, it was a wild one but very good. I can’t wait to read more by Korean authors.


Read: The namesake: a novel by Jhumpa Lahiri


The namesake by Jhumpa Lahiri has been a book that I wanted to read for a while and when it jumped out again at me from the public library shelves, I decided it was time. Having read her short stories, I knew I was in for a treat.

The story is about a boy whose parents immigrated from India and he is first generation Indian–American. Due to unforeseen circumstances, he is given a nickname at birth but never receives a proper name. So when he goes to school, his father tries to get him to use the name Nikhil but he is so used to Gogol that he prefers the familial nickname even in public. As his father can never find the right time, he is not told the true story behind his name until much later in life which makes it difficult for him to appreciate it growing up. The story focuses on Gogol’s struggle through life.

Lahiri’s writing style is very evocative and entrancing. She focuses a lot on imagery and describes in great detail Indian food, customs, and culture, as well as how it is changed by living in America. Due to the details, the reader is drawn into the novel and feels as though they’re in the room with the family, living life with Gogol.

The novel has a slower pace than some. The reader is steeped in moments of his life before progressing on to the next phase and struggle. The pacing allows for much reflection as well as enjoyment in the details. It is easy to linger over a phrase or passage and re-reading it, contemplating it for a brief while.

Recommended?: For lovers of literary fiction, especially those wanting a taste of growing up first generation Indian-American. The story is at once heartwarming and strained with its depiction of the family, which only makes it feel all the more real.

Read: Saga, volumes 1-7 by Brian K. Vaughan


Saga is a graphic novel series written by Brian K. Vaughan and illustrated by Fiona Staples. The story itself is gripping but the artwork is truly engrossing. A friend recommended the series and it was the perfect quick read when I wasn’t feeling well earlier this summer. Thanks to the public library’s subscription to Hoopla, I raced through the entire set that’s been published so far and now have to wait for the next!

Saga takes place in space, set in a very different universe from ours, with many different alien and creature races. They have spaceships for interplanetary travel and distinct cultures that don’t always get along. The two main characters include a man whose race is at war with the race of the woman that he comes to love while he is in prison. She is a guard who watches him and feeling drawn to him, busts him out and escapes. They marry and have a child which is at once both appalling to both races who are at war and shocking as they refuse to believe that such a union is possible between their two people. The main action of the plot is to catch these Marko and Alana and punish them for their crimes. Different people of all types are trying to track them down, including famous bounty hunters.

Very quickly the story balloons in the number of characters and plot lines. You start first with Marko and Alana who then have a daughter named Hazel, get multiple people chasing after them who are intertwined with others, and then we’re introduced to a whole different society who also has a vested interest in tracking them down, and on and on. However, as complicated as it gets, the story’s main focus is on Marko, Alana, and Hazel as a family. For a while, they get separated from each other and so it’s also a struggle about reuniting and what it means to truly be a family. This consistent, main plot line makes the story all the more compelling. It is through the tangents connected to them that we learn about their world and universe.

Very quickly, the characters are made into deep and complex people with touching and sometimes heart wrenching stories of their own. Even side characters have a lot of depth and the little bit we find out about them is meaningful and paints a fuller picture of them. There is so much emotion in that only the plot lines but also the characters, which draws me in as a reader even more. It is easy to connect with many of the characters and their situations. For being a graphic novel, there is so much packed into the limited dialogue and illustrations. It really does feel like reading a lengthy novel, in a good way.

While the illustrations are gorgeous, they can be very brutal and occasionally gory. This graphic novel is truly for adults only, as there are at times explicit sexual acts as well as graphic violence. They do further the story and showcase the true nature of certain people, but some of it can be difficult to read and, as this is a graphic novel, look at. Regardless, Staples’ drawings are incredible and for most of them, I could stare at them for quite a while, captivated by her unique style. Amazing.

Recommended?: For adults who love sci-fi, especially space, and complex alien and creature races. Considering that I haven’t read many graphic novels, I rank this series very highly among them and think it would be good for someone just getting into them. They are easy to read and, as long as you don’t mind the adult content, they are wonderful. I can’t wait for the next volume to see where the story goes!

Read: The Wangs vs. the world: a novel by Jade Chang


I must confess, I had seen this book around recently and finally curiosity got the best of me and I just had to read it. I’m not sure what it was exactly, I don’t believe I had read any book reviews but there was just something about the title and the cover that intrigued me. What a great novel!

The Wangs vs. the world is about a Chinese American family who has lost almost everything due to their father’s bad investments and the 2008 financial crisis: their home, their money, their cars. With only the little money on hand and an old car that they had sold for cheap to their family friend/nanny, dejected Charles Wang, his second wife and his high school daughter set off on the necessary road trip across America to pick up his forced-to-be-a-college-dropout son and head to his oldest daughter’s farm house in upstate New York. Each family member deals with the loss and coming to terms with their new reality in their own way and Chang captures each character’s worries and struggles well.

Jade Chang’s writing is vivid and engaging, channeling lots of passion especially with Charles. The descriptions and dialogue are well-crafted, often packing a punch or digging deep into emotions that make the novel feel more true to life. To me, this type of writing makes reading very enjoyable and the pages nearly turn themselves.

One decision that some readers may dislike is the inclusion of the Chinese language used in dialogue in the novel. While there isn’t a translation provided, typically the content around it help to understand what was said without one. However, Chang uses the Romanized Chinese instead of the traditional Chinese characters so it is easy enough to look up the translation if desired. This didn’t bother me at all and in fact it added more authenticity to the story. Overall, it is a very very small portion of dialogue. If anything, there probably should have been more of it. Also, the chapters are numbered in Chinese, which is a simple touch as a constant reminder that they are Chinese Americans that stand out in the county.

While the novel rotates between the several characters with common themes of love and lust, worrying about the past and future, the main theme is family. With all of its complications, it is clear that each of the Wangs comes to realize that it is the most important part of life and sometimes it takes adversity to point it out.

Recommended?: Yes! Many readers will enjoy this novel, whether you are Chinese American or not. Family is family, no matter who you are so everyone can find something to connect with in the novel. The same can be said about the other main themes. Since this is her debut novel, I can hardly wait to see what else she writes!

The Wangs versus the world book cover

Read: Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides


Nature versus nurture is a broad attempt to explain how a person became who they are today. However, the main character Cal in Middlesex by Jeffrey Eugenides pushes the boundaries and arguments to the limits without meaning to. The novel revolves around family–what nature created from the grandparents and parents as well as the nurture of how Cal was raised and treated growing up. In order to do this, Eugenides took on a very ambitious task in writing this story and it is no wonder that he won the Pulitzer Prize for it.

Desires fight norms throughout the novel. New life versus tradition. Longing versus incest. Self-made versus family business. The elderly versus the youth. Gender roles versus inner feelings.

From the very first sentence, we know that the main character was deemed a girl at birth but at the age of 14 was discovered to be a boy when puberty set in. Cal is a male who lacks some of the necessary hormones so did not fully sexually develop as either gender. He proceeds to tell us his complete story, which means beginning with his Greek grandparents in Smyrna, Turkey, in 1922 during the Greco-Turkish War and the Great Fire of Smyrna. Whether from the turmoil and strife of the times or pure misguided love, Desdemona and Eleutherios “Lefty” Stephanides married each other even though they were sister and brother. On the boat from Turkey to America, they convinced everyone that they had only just met and played out a love story for themselves as well as their audience. In Detroit, they stayed with their cousin and her husband. Both couples had kids, perfectly normal in spite of Desdemona’s fear and guilt of her incest. Her son Milton in turn marries his cousin Tessie and they have two kids of their own–Chapter Eleven the son, and the main character Calliope (Callie) the daughter-turned-son who goes by Cal.

Middlesex contains four sections: the first about the Greek grandparents in Turkey and their journey to America, the second covers living in Detroit up to Cal’s conception, part three follows Callie’s childhood and life as a girl, and the fourth and final section takes us from the notion that she may be a male instead of female through his struggle to embrace himself as he truly is. Though the novel has these distinct parts and follows other characters, Cal is always the main focus, including himself into the story in the present, seeking a girlfriend despite the fact that he cannot fully be with someone sexually so is unable to commit, while also examining the past that made him who he is today as he tells the full story of his family and his life.

So far, this has been a very simplified summary, which leaves out all of the wonderful topics and details that Eugenides indulges in throughout the telling. The novel is storytelling at its finest, gritty reality when need be, endearing faulty romances, and heartbreaking grappling with life and its challenges. In crafting such an ambitious story, Eugenides takes us on travels with all of his characters, from silk worm farming in war-torn Turkey to the Henry Ford assembly line and prohibition era of Detroit and a strip club in San Francisco in the mid-1970s for Cal to find and be comfortable with himself. A Detroit Islamic mosque, the riots of 1967, and even the Turkish invasion of Cyprus in 1974 are all touched on. It is clear that Eugenides believes that cultural history affects the family history which in turn molds the person that Cal becomes. Thus, the novel is comprehensive in a great many things, touching on even more, just to tell Cal’s story. In telling his, it all must be told. By taking this approach, the novel becomes a robust, complex, intricate family history that makes the reader understand and care about all of the members but in particular Cal. He alone takes on the responsibility of everyone’s past actions, and no one realizes this for a good portion of his life. The novel is not only about how he becomes who he is but also how he excepts and grows into the role that was coded in his genetics for him from the start.

Sex plays a large and very important role throughout this whole novel, as the grandparents and his parents created what he became. With gender roles also a big part of determining who a person is, Calliope’s sexual interests and experiences as a young girl and teenager helped her understand that she wasn’t part of the typical female role early on and allowed her grow into Cal and take on more easily the male persona that she always had been. Once the genetics are uncovered, Cal immediately feels right being male and has no trouble transitioning from that point forward. The story from then on becomes him figuring out how to be comfortable and act in the new gender role in order to convince others and feel fully male himself. Not much of the story takes place in the present with the adult Cal. There are a few scenes that hint that he isn’t fully comfortable still today and is trying to find that woman who makes him feel that he can be himself as his is, especially sexually.

Recommended?: Yes. Oddly enough, this is an Oprah Book Club book, which impresses me because the topics covered can be hard to read since Eugenides makes the reader sympathetic to the characters even when their morality is questionable. The novel itself is very approachable and readable yet the writing style is beautiful and complex as well. It is an enjoyable read even though it is difficult at times due to subject matter. With a rich world of multiple settings and characters it’s hard not to love this book. It is a well-crafted and plotted story, and the ending is satisfying and wraps up as it should. While it’s a great book for people struggling with gender roles and changes, the book remains focused on family and would be an excellent read for any adult.